Which Way Are You Gonna Go?

When you see this blog title, what immediately goes through your mind? Since this is a Crossroads Career blog, it’s highly likely your thoughts initially turn to something like: All of these, plus many others, are valid questions and reactions to today’s blog title. Yet I’d like to use this blog to delve into the most important question I’ve both …

Did God Shut The Door…Or Did You?

“There are a lot of quotes about closed doors, like, ‘When God closes a door He will open a window.’ I think the real truth is that when God closes a door, we often try to break in anyway.” (SK Brown) I had heard the first quote about God opening a window over the years, but I hadn’t ever heard the perspective …

Forget it!?!

Back on 4/15/25, we shared some thoughts under the title, “Don’t Forget” (Read HERE). In it are some practical reminders for people who are unfulfilled, unemployed, or disengaged (UUD). By the way, UUD equates to over 60% of American workers today per Gallup Research. Now I’d like to visit the other side of the coin. What SHOULD we forget if we’re in …

How Many Signs Does It Take?

Before you REALLY REALLY know it’s time to change jobs? Perhaps it’s Sunday night, and you develop cold sweats or have dread fear about going to work on Monday? Could it be some type of astrology sign that you believe is giving you a signal? Or maybe a good friend is giving you the business about how you should be somewhere …

Could Rejection Just Be Redirection?

Q: How do you feel when you’ve been rejected?A: Not good. Q: How do you view the word rejected?A: Not good—harsh and abrupt. Q: What is our tendency to forget rejection?A: Not good… or easy. Q: What do we do when we are rejected?A: Doubt. Q: How many of us tend to avoid the word rejected?A: I don’t like that …

Facing Government Layoffs? Here’s How to Transition Successfully to the Private Sector

Government Layoffs

In today’s uncertain economic environment, many federal employees are facing a new and challenging reality: the possibility of government layoffs. As the Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE) initiatives aim to streamline federal operations, job cuts in various agencies are becoming more than just a rumor. If you’re among those concerned about your future in the federal workforce, or if you’ve …

The Blame Game

Hello everyone! Welcome to another exciting edition of (drum roll, please) The Blame Game! As you’ve seen from past competitions, this game strives to extract the best blaming and shaming from our contestants! Everything is up for grabs and nothing is sacred as we explore why people do the things they do (and don’t do) for reasons they have trouble …

Don’t Forget

So…what’s the first thing you thought of when you saw the title of this blog? What did you remember? Ha! Or have you forgotten? 🙂 Ok, a little wacky, I know. If you’re like me, you might have trouble remembering what you had for breakfast yesterday (or maybe even this morning?), or what your spouses’ favorite food is (really?!?), or what time …

Discovering Purpose and Hope: Crossroads Career Podcast Season 2

Life doesn’t always go as planned. Whether it’s an unexpected job loss, a sudden career shift, or the feeling of being stuck in a role that no longer fulfills you, many people find themselves at a crossroads in their professional journeys. It’s a place where uncertainty meets opportunity, and it’s where stories of transformation and faith often begin. That’s exactly …

Never Say Never or Always…Except Sometimes!?!

How many of you have heard that phrase before?  Or perhaps another version of it, “Never say never, and always avoid always”? Do you believe it? Have you found it to be true, or not so much? When I reflect back on my life and now apply different adages I’ve heard or used, I’ve generally found this one to be …